Early in my relationship with my wife she confessed to me that she had had bisexual feelings since she was a teenager. She was afraid to tell me, fearing that I might be disgusted by this as her former husband had been. Being a red blooded male, I saw this as a bonus. The fantasy threesome might actually happen. She would have a dream come true, and in supporting her so would I!

Well that was 5 years ago now and nothing seems to have happened (unless of course I simply haven’t been told about it). My wife knows that she can see someone without me to begin with but I’m pretty sure she hasn’t. She agreed to keep no secrets from me and I agreed to wait for an invite rather than assume I’d be involved. We’ve tried internet sites and joined the throngs of couples looking for a single bisexual girl that would be attractive and intelligent enough to enjoy the event with us. But there seems to be a lot of talk and promises that rarely come to anything for anyone. As if the fantasy is as far as many want to go. I wonder, if there are so many girls with bisexual feelings, how come so few are available for some frolics? I wonder too, what we can do to change our fortune. Is it just the British reserve that keeps people from chasing these dreams proactively? I find myself jealous of communities such as in ancient Rome who simply went to get what they wanted and felt no shame.

I find myself wondering whether it could ever happen for us. I know too that my wife is still keen. Being a man, I multitask badly. That’s why when ever I think of this I don’t get much else done. But then, if I can’t multitask, what hope have I got if it ever happens?! I imagine it is the ultimate form of multitasking – keeping two girls happy in bed, even if it means just knowing when to stay out of the way! That’s why it is important to me that the person we share is the right character to have a laugh with no matter what happens. Her character is as important as her looks and figure.

So, I’m asking you if you have any advice on how to help us make it happen or advice on what to do and not to do when it does. Your stories much awaited!